Advice Blog

Welcome! I'm Katelynn :3 this blog was created in order to answer any questions/concerns you have or give advice about any topic. I will never judge you, I'm simply here to help. I'm currently in school for psychology, and plan to be a high school counselor after graduation so this kinda thing is right up my alley :]

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Anonymous asked: Hi there!! So I am REALLY into one of my best friends, we do everything together and tell each other everything. I told him I liked him as more than a friend recently, and though he wont admit to it right up, I know he has feelings for me too, we sleep together frequently, and the sex is fantastic! I dont want to feel like I'm wasting my time pursuing him, but I cant help but feel like he's perfect for me. Suggestions?

if you want to take your friendship to the next level, tell him how you feel! he sounds perfect for you, so it can’t hurt to take a chance.

Anonymous asked: i masturbated by myself for the first time with my vibrator and i my stomach started shaking, felt the need to scream, was gettin hot, my vagina was throbbing then the feeling went away and im not sure if its bc i moved the vibrator from the spot or if i got nervous and it went away idk. i dont even know if it felt good but those were the feelings i was getting. and nothing came out either. did i have an orgasm or no?

I’m not quite sure if you orgasmed, if not you were close to it.

Anonymous asked: Is it normal that a younger person has a much bigger penis? The thing is, I've been dating my boyfriend for a while, and we had sex twice, and his penis look really big, like not only for his age, but at general (he's 13 and I'm 15, but we are in the same class), and my previous boyfriend, to whom I lost my virginity, was 17, but his penis was at least 3 inches smaller (maybe 4, I don't really know). So, should I warn my current boyfriend about it, I'm very worried, and don't know what to do...

I don’t think age has much to do with penis size. some men are just gifted with a larger than average penis :)

Anonymous asked: Well. My crush insults me sometimes, but sometimes he is sweet and nice to me. But I would like to know what boys mean when they randomly insult you. He teases me and stuff sometimes but he says he's just kidding and smiles, and he told me he likes to mess around with me. Does he like me or not? Please help!! Thanks so much. <3

it sounds like he does, but it’s hard to tell sometimes.

Anonymous asked: My one year anniversary with my bf is coming up. I'm a bit caught about what to do, because while he has money at his disposal, I'm working hard to try to get a part-time job. I've currently made a cd for him, with songs that remind me of him/us. I was thinking of paying for our dinner, because he always does. Is there anything easy/inexpensive you can think of? :)

the cd is a really good idea, I did that when I was low on cash. I’ve also made a poster of what I love about my boyfriend, and memories during our relationship. paying for dinner is also a nice idea, he might tell you not to though haha :)

Anonymous asked: i feel like my gf doesn't try to make time for me. i'm leaving for bootcamp soon so time is so limited. how do i tell her how i feel without making her feel guilty/bad?

just mention that you’re leaving soon and you’d like to spend as much time with her as possible. 

Anonymous asked: Hi there. :) I was wondering about something, 'cause I asked a couple of people about this, but they all said "I don't know." Hopefully you can help me! aha. But, I like this guy, and I've noticed that his friends do things like pushing him into me, or say things like, "oohh." in a high-pitched when I walk by them; sometimes they keep looking at me when they're all talking. Does that mean anything? Please and thanks!

Ohh he likes you. I’m guessing he hasn’t made a move yet, so his friends are basically mocking him for it.

Anonymous asked: i'm the anon that asked about changing a guy's mind who doesn't want a relationship. can you think of anything i can do that might help him realize that being in a relationship can be good, without being pushy? thanks so much<3

basically let him know that you’re there for him. be supportive about things that are important to him. talk to him about his interests. basically be yourself! if it’s meant to happen, it will :) 

Anonymous asked: Part 2: to do because we're still having sex and sometimes I feel like that's all he wants and he doesn't really care about me. I feel like if he really wanted to be with me then he would be. What should I do? I don't think we can be friends anymore so should I just tell him that it's either everything (relationship) or nothing, that we go our sepreate ways?

definitely stop having sex with him until he makes up his mind about being in a relationship. that isn’t fair to you at all. if you feel uneasy about it, then I would suggest ending it. if he cared about you I don’t think he would be acting this way.

Anonymous asked: There's a guy that's been my bestfriend for almost 5 years now and we've pretty much always liked each other but we never went out because it was always wrong timing. Last summer we had sex and he was my first but he had a girlfriend. He always tells me how much he loves me and I really do love him. We're both single now and I want to be with him and he says he wants to be with me but he needs time for himself because he just broke up with his girlfriend a couple weeks ago and I don't know what

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